U are who u are

  U can't force people to love u.

U can't force people to follow your way.

U can't simply make people understand u.

U can't even force people to be loyal to u.

U can't force people to care about u.

In the end, 

Just be who u want to be.

Don't be who other people want u to be.

U are who u are.

U have the right to choose who u want to be.